Girls can be of two types. One, those who are idealistic, they firmly believe in whatever they have been taught in schools or they have learned from their idols.
The other type are practical, opportunistic and they have flexible values.
I would like to talk about the first kind of girls because Deepica and Saba you both are very close to the first kind. Though there is one quality that I haven't seen in both of you that is aggression. Which comes with idealism and womanhood.
Saba to some extent speaks out but she usually quits or distances herself rather than fight or confront.
Now, the first kind of girls are usually well educated and are from middle class or upper middle class.
Let's take up a situation. Suppose, there has been a major calamity like earthquake in Lucknow and surrounding areas or due to war the economy has stopped functioning. So, there is no food and people are dependent on food supplies from army. Army is dropping food packets at some places. Imagine people fighting and killing each other for food. To feed my family either I would kill somebody or get killed. No place for ethics.
You might say that this is an extreme extreme situation but humans must try to behave in civilized manner.
Alright, let's take another situation. Suppose a guy working in a private firm with not much experience. He has a wife, a child who has just started going to school. Wife is keeping home. Father has retired and Mother is ailing due to age. The guy also has a younger brother who is not a graduate yet.
So, the guy is earning for his family and apart from that his Father's pension also contributes to family income. Though family does not have much savings in bank and just one house where they all are living.
The guy faces a dilemma at his workplace that if he does not carry out some unethical jobs he would lose the job. What if he objects and becomes jobless? His family that is dependent on him shall face crisis.
What do you say? Ethics or Family?
The other type are practical, opportunistic and they have flexible values.
I would like to talk about the first kind of girls because Deepica and Saba you both are very close to the first kind. Though there is one quality that I haven't seen in both of you that is aggression. Which comes with idealism and womanhood.
Saba to some extent speaks out but she usually quits or distances herself rather than fight or confront.
Now, the first kind of girls are usually well educated and are from middle class or upper middle class.
Let's take up a situation. Suppose, there has been a major calamity like earthquake in Lucknow and surrounding areas or due to war the economy has stopped functioning. So, there is no food and people are dependent on food supplies from army. Army is dropping food packets at some places. Imagine people fighting and killing each other for food. To feed my family either I would kill somebody or get killed. No place for ethics.
You might say that this is an extreme extreme situation but humans must try to behave in civilized manner.
Alright, let's take another situation. Suppose a guy working in a private firm with not much experience. He has a wife, a child who has just started going to school. Wife is keeping home. Father has retired and Mother is ailing due to age. The guy also has a younger brother who is not a graduate yet.
So, the guy is earning for his family and apart from that his Father's pension also contributes to family income. Though family does not have much savings in bank and just one house where they all are living.
The guy faces a dilemma at his workplace that if he does not carry out some unethical jobs he would lose the job. What if he objects and becomes jobless? His family that is dependent on him shall face crisis.
What do you say? Ethics or Family?
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